Our default position is to spin things, so it’s not our ‘fault.’ In so doing, we avoid looking at ourselves and miss opportunities to know and heal ourselves and our pain. We also never learn to identify why we live the life we live. So, it’s time now to look at yourself only, to get clear about what you want, and to express it clearly so you can build the life of your dreams. Building the right life is putting things into perspective and maximizing your productivity in every part of your life.